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to soften up
[phrase form: soften]
01
to be kind to someone with the intention of increasing the chances of them agreeing to one's request
Examples
She decided to soften up her colleague by complimenting their work before discussing the project changes.
Before asking for a favor, he tried to soften up his friend by expressing gratitude for their ongoing support.
02
to strategically weaken an enemy, making them more vulnerable to subsequent attacks or negotiations
Examples
Diplomats engaged in negotiations to soften up the rival nation before discussing more contentious issues.
The military conducted a series of airstrikes to soften up the enemy's defenses before the ground assault.
03
to make something less hard or rough
Examples
The constant stream of water over the years began to soften up the jagged edges of the stone steps.
Regular application of lotion helps soften up dry and rough skin, leaving it smoother.
