benched
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被备胎的, 作为备选项保留的
kept as a backup romantic or dating option while the other person pursues someone else
Slang
例子
She keeps texting me but never makes plans; definitely benched.
她一直给我发信息但从不制定计划；绝对是被当作备胎。
He realized he was benched when she started dating someone new.
他意识到自己被当作备胎了，当她开始和新人约会时。
