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to play gooseberry
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to be in the company of two people who prefer to be alone, particularly a romantic couple
Dialect
British
British
Idiom
InformalWhat is the origin of the idiom "play gooseberry" and when to use it?
The idiom "play gooseberry" has its origins in British slang dating back to the 19th century. It originally referred to a person who accompanied a couple on a romantic outing, acting as a chaperone to ensure their behavior remained appropriate, much like a gooseberry bush standing alone. Over time, the term has evolved to mean someone who is unintentionally present when a couple wants to be alone, often feeling like a third wheel or outsider in the situation.
Examples
When Mark's friends invited him to a cozy dinner, he realized he was playing gooseberry as they celebrated their anniversary.
Mary reluctantly joined her brother and his girlfriend on their picnic, feeling like a gooseberry as they shared tender moments.
