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to play gooseberry
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to be in the company of two people who prefer to be alone, particularly a romantic couple
What is the origin of the idiom "play gooseberry" and when to use it?
The idiom "play gooseberry" has its origins in British slang dating back to the 19th century. It originally referred to a person who accompanied a couple on a romantic outing, acting as a chaperone to ensure their behavior remained appropriate, much like a gooseberry bush standing alone. Over time, the term has evolved to mean someone who is unintentionally present when a couple wants to be alone, often feeling like a third wheel or outsider in the situation.
Example
Jane tried to discreetly slip away when she realized she was playing gooseberry on her sister's romantic boat ride.
When Mark's friends invited him to a cozy dinner, he realized he was playing gooseberry as they celebrated their anniversary.
At the party, Sarah ended up playing gooseberry when her best friend reunited with her long-lost love.
