to cut off one's nose to spite one's face
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남 골탕 먹이려다 제 손해 보다, 앙갚음하다가 자기만 손해 보다
to do something with the intention of harming or punishing someone only to face the consequences oneself
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Jane refused to accept a job offer from her dream company simply because her ex-boyfriend worked there, cutting off her nose to spite her face.
상사를 짜증나게 하려고 승진을 거절하는 건 남 골탕 먹이려다 제 손해 보는 일이야.



























