Ara
to wear the trousers
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bir ilişkide borusu ötmek
to be the one who makes important decisions and fully controls a relationship or family
Örnek
Despite the traditional expectations, it's clear that in their relationship, James wears the trousers, making most of the household decisions.
She may give the impression that she wears the trousers but it's actually Tim who makes all the big decisions.