to put years on somebody
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(particularly of an event or a difficult situation) to cause a lot of suffering to someone and make them look or feel much older
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Idiom
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The stress of his demanding job has put years on him; he looks much older than his actual age.
The responsibility of caring for her ailing parents has put years on her, but it has also made her stronger.
