not choose one's women or one's linen by candlelight
{not} choose {one's} women or {one's} linen in a candlelit roomnot choose one's women or one's linen by candlelight
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used to suggest that it is essential to see things clearly without any illusions or romanticized ideas before making a significant decision
Proverb
例子
Before accepting a job offer, it's important to visit the workplace and meet your potential coworkers to get a feel for the company culture and work environment, following the proverb never choose your women or your linen by candlelight.
